“Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and clings to his wife, and they become one flesh.”

Genesis 2:24

Summary

In this episode, we talk about something every person longs for: belonging. At its heart, marriage is meant to be a place where you are chosen, known, and not easily walked away from. It’s a home base, the one relationship you freely choose, where staying matters more than being perfect. Belonging in marriage isn’t about constant agreement or effortless connection. It’s about knowing someone is still there when things are hard, awkward, or unfinished. Over time, that kind of commitment creates safety, trust, and real intimacy. We also explore why working through the mess together often leads to deeper joy than walking away. Join us as we begin a series on building lasting belonging in marriage, starting with the foundation of healthy communication.

Key Takeaways

• Everyone needs a place where they Belong and that is found in marriage for Catholic couples

• Build that home base in your marriage by affirming your commitment to each other, not just that you are doing everything perfectly.

• Being known in marriage happens through vulnerability. When you belong you are able to be more vulnerable.

• When you work as a team with common goals that also builds connection and belonging

Couple Discussion Questions

• How can we continue to build a safe place, a comfort in belonging to each other in our marriage?

• What are our shared goals and dreams?

Resources

• Study showing couples who stay together are happier

• https://ifstudies.org/blog/for-most-couples-who-stay-the-course-marriage-gets-better-with-time-an-interview-with-paul-r-amato

• Importance of Shared Meaning

• https://www.gottman.com/blog/enriching-marriage-creating-shared-meaning/