The culture tells us to eliminate “toxic people.” Jesus tells us to love our enemies. So what does real Christian charity look like when a relationship is painful, chaotic, or constantly draining? In this week’s episode, Dr. Greg tackles one of the most common—and misunderstood—questions Catholics wrestle with: When is it time to set boundaries, and when is it time to stay and suffer with love?

Key Topics:

• Why the issue is often the dynamic—not the person
• How to love others without losing yourself
• Why authentic self-care is an act of charity, not selfishness
• What the Cross reveals about healthy, sacrificial love
• How limits, space, and boundaries can actually protect love — not weaken it
• How to tell the difference between loving someone well and enabling unhealthy behavior
• What interior freedom looks like in messy or emotionally charged relationships
• How to know when your “yes” is coming from virtue… and when it’s coming from fear, guilt, or pressure

Learn More:

• Integrated Life Membership – Looking for steady formation and Christ-centered support? The Integrated Life community offers pathways, tools, and resources to help you live an ordered, peaceful, integrated Catholic life.
• Related episodes on toxic relationships:
  • Ep. 253: You’ve Changed, Your Family Hasn’t, Now What?
  • Ep. 216: Breaking the Cycle of Pain: How to Heal from Childhood Wounds
  • Ep. 215: When Are Parents Toxic? Navigating Toxic Family Relationships
  • Ep. 142: How to Start Healing an Unhealthy Relationship
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