Messy Family Project
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Alicia Hernon
Mike Hernon
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Catholic conversations on marriage and family. Offering encouragement, practical advice, and suggestions for parents on this messy adventure.
Parenting is not a clean-cut, simple process for those who like to follow the rules. Family life is messy and unpredictable, but it is the greatest adventure you will ever have. We are Mike and Alicia Hernon, parents of 10 children with a growing number of grandchildren, and we would like to invite you into some of the conversations we have had with each other about marriage, parenting, and Catholic family life. Our hope is that our conversation sparks a dialogue between you and your spouse that leads to greater unity and intentional Christian parenting in your home. Listen in to our podcast and start the conversation as we seek to lead our families to heaven.
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Summary
Are you exhausted, overwhelmed, or wondering whether you’re doing anything right as a parent of little ones? You’re not alone — and you’re not crazy. In this refreshed and expanded episode, Mike and Alicia revisit their classic “Survival Zone” conversation with new insights from another decade of parenting and now grandparenting. They unpack why the early years are so intense, what’s normal (hint: your exhaustion), how marriage is stretched during this season, and how moms and dads can support each other through the chaos. You’ll hear practical advice on setting realistic ideals, finding community, leaning on others for help, navigating time traps like social media, letting dads step up in their unique way, and prioritizing your marriage in the midst of diapers and dishes. Whether you’re in the trenches right now or reflecting back on that season, this episode offers encouragement, perspective, and a reminder: this won’t last forever — and it will make you stronger.
Key Takeaways
Reassess ideals
Consider getting outside help – isolation hurts this
Dads have to step in – great opportunity for men to gain confidence
Get out alone together
Beware of “time traps”
Get some good routines going that work for you
This is training for your life. If you can do this, you can do anything
Couple Discussion Questions
How can we support each other during this time?
What are the greatest lessons that we are learning?
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